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Generally The rule of thumb is to minimize the negative in Peoples Lives before during and after their funeral. This unwritten rule of funeral  was  and will be the case in the Robert Byrd Funerals and memorial services.

Yes he was West Virginia’s Favorite son. Yes President Clinton  and Barack Obama glossed over and gave poor reasons for his involvement in the KKK and his Filibuster of the Civil Rights Act( following the don’t say anything negative funeral rule.)

But Every Service also made a reference to all the great things he did West Virginia. But surprisingly when the Facts are looked at objectively, he did not do all that for the state. In his time as a Congressman and senator for West Virginia, he did find a “time for every Earmark under heaven” amassing a whopping 4+Billion Dollars of them for WVA.

The Wall Street Journal Points out that all that Senator Byrd Cash really did not change things for West Virginia.

“His heart belonged to you,” President Obama told the hundreds of West Virginians who attended Robert Byrd’s funeral last week. “Making life better here was his only agenda.” Maybe so. But despite the $4 billion in pork that Byrd served his constituents over the past 19 years alone—not to mention the untold billions before observers started keeping tabs—West Virginia remains the third poorest state in the country. Government spending does not prosperity make”-via online.wsj.com

President Obama should have known better than  to tell such a half truth, especially at a state funeral even if  it was from a speech from a  a teleprompter.

Here are the  Six Funerals of Senator of Robert Byrd.

Senator Robert Byrd will take a unique place In History and The History of Funerals. He has had Four Funerals.

1.Funeral as he lied in repose on the Senate Floor on Thursday July 1st 2010.

2. Memorial Service on Friday July 2nd 2010 at The West Virginia Statehouse.

3. Funeral Service a the Memorial Baptist Church on Tuesday July 6th 2010.

4. Grave Side Service at Columbia Gardens Cemetery

There will be 2 more services:

1. A disinterment at Columbia Gardens Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia

2. Another Burial Service at a West Virginia Cemetery to be announced.

Senator Robert Byrd of West Virginia will have a total of 6 Funeral  Services

Sen. Byrd may have loved West Virginia. But a hearty economy would have been a greater legacy than the 30 taxpayer-funded projects that bear his name.

via online.wsj.com

As “Almost heaven West Virginia” was played at that the State Capitol, I could not help but think all that pork spending and it never happened. Your Funeral Guy has driven through West Virginia many times. His best friend lived and died  there.

I always thought it would be good if what was said at a wedding  would be said at Funerals. IF ANYONE OBJECTS TO US BURYING THIS PERSON WITH HONORS  SPEAK NOW OR FOREVER HOLD YOUR PEACE.

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Yes a case could be made that all those Senator Byrd Funerals were a  funeral scandal.

This is one of the more radical original funeral posts from your Funeral Guy because it breaks the unwritten Nothing negative said funeral rule.


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Saturday, July 10th, 2010
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Recently Legacy.Com has been shown to be the creator of  a world wide Online Death Notices  THE FIRST  DIGITAL DEATH, DYING Scandal. Boing Boing, Idle Words.Com Your Funeral Guy, and Charles Cowling  from the UK have all commented on the problem but the best coverage was done by the deathreferencedesk.com

Legacy.com stores online obituaries for most of the major Newspapers in the world.

THERE ARE  TWO SERIOUS PROBLEMS-

1. Asking for funding money from guest book signers.

2. Legacy.com not being forthright with death notice(obituary Charges)

Snippet from the Deathreferencedesk.com:

“Idle Words did a little research (which Boing Boing then posted) to uncover exactly what’s going on with Legacy—because their mode of operation is less than transparent. At issue is how their online guest books work and the deceptive and manipulative way money changes hands in the process. The process is this: you sign the guest book after which you are greeted with a warning that states that the guest book will expire in a little over a month. You can make sure this doesn’t happen by paying $29 to keep it up for a year, or go for the eternity package and pay $79 to keep the guest book alive “in perpetuity.”

While that might seem a bit crass, that’s not really the issue. Through some investigation, Idle Words discovered that creating an online Legacy.com death notice is a less than forthright when it comes to the money. At no time in the process do they tell you what the charges are (from $79). For that, you need to drill down into the small print back at (in this case) the NY Times rate sheet page—outside of the confines of the obituary creation stage. I dare you to even find where the rate sheet info is because I can tell you it’s under deep cover—and I’m a librarian!

Charles Cowling of the  Good Funeral Guide (excellent web site and book) made a comment about the same thing happening   at the Legacy.com site in the UK. THIS POINTS OUT THAT THE OBITUARY SCAM IS WORLDWIDE.

“I see that Mr Murdoch’s Times in the UK is similarly afflicted. Mr M is not easily shamed, nor, I guess, the golden-hearted lads and lasses at legacy.com. It has had its share of being badmouthed over the last few years.

It’s a marvellous revenue stream and a tacky site. I see poor Beryl Bainbridge is up there this morning.

And let’s not overlook the labours of partner Obitmessenger: https://www.legacy.com/obitmessenger/default.asp?page=includepartners A good many local papers in the UK have bought into this.

At present, people depend on newspapers to tell them who’s dead. I can’t see how anyone could compete with legacy.com because the consumer is wholly uninformed and therefore powerless. Perhaps the growth of social networking will bring about a better and cost free way of announcing a death, together with a pointer to an ethical and completely free online memorial site like my favourite, muchloved.com.”via  Charles Cowling commentdeathreferencedesk.org

This story is extremely significant for two industry’s in trouble, the newspaper industry and the funeral industry, social media is a significant tool for death notification, as well as a news source. More than info on recently dead friends and public figures, social media now provides info on funerals while they are going on!


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Wednesday, July 7th, 2010
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The funeral word of the decade is cremation. The funeral word of 2009 is Green Funeral. Funeral personalization came in a close second for funeral word of the decade. Funeral scandal was second  for 2009.

The book Grave Matters influenced the funeral word of the decade, and the word for 2009

The #1 Funeral Book For the decade  is Grave Matters by Mark Harris “  The book has been #1 for funeral   at Amazon..com

The word for the decade was google. The word for 2009 is twitter.

All this has significant implications for the Funeral Consumer and the Funeral Industry

Funeral Industry|Funeral News | Funeral Blog by YourFuneral Guy

Your Funeral Guy has no affiliation (receives no Funds)with Mark Harris, other than we are authors, bloggers.

This is an Original Post by Your Funeral Guy.

Rankings are the opinions of Your Funeral Guy


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